Spiritual marriage means union with God, Soul, and Spirit. Marriage is not a man-made law. It is God-made. Man has abused the high purpose of marriage. Marriage means unity on the physical, mental, and spiritual planes. If you attract a person by spiritual magnetism, then you will meet your soul companion. Marriage is the communion of half-souls. In God we find highest communion. Unless human love is spiritualized, it will be a canker in your soul. Unless you are spiritually-minded and your mate is the same, you can never be happy.

Spiritual marriage means to marry your soul to the eternal love of God. Without God no marriage can be successful. The purpose of marriage is to know God, to be with God together, but this has been forgotten.

Do not try to attract the opposite sex through physical desires but through soul qualities. You cannot attract a spiritual soul through animal magnetism. Too much living on the sex plane causes health and happiness to fly away. When you have formed a tremendous friendship with a person that nothing can destroy, a friendship that has no compulsion in it and that increases constantly, you have found a true mate.

Balancing Reason and Feeling

In woman, feeling is expressed uppermost and in man, reason is expressed uppermost. In the married life, they bring out the hidden feeling and reason in each other, thus becoming more perfect. Every man and woman who have tried to seek a substitute for that spiritual quality through the sex instinct, have been disappointed. Reason and feeling in man and woman should be balanced. Like the softness of flowers, and the strength of steel, they are divine qualities.

God is all the love of all the lovers who ever loved. If you learn the higher forms of meditation, you can have spiritual marriage, or that communion with God which is the most beautiful of all love. Remember, no marriage can find its true purpose without man and wife first seeking God together. In marriage, love also grows through service to each other. When a husband and wife serve each other with the eternal inspiration of God, that is spiritual marriage.

People who rise above the physical plane and continuously strengthen the love of their souls find their oneness in God. When the love of two persons burns as one flame, above the physical plane, then it has intoxicating eternal qualities. The marriage that is lived in self-control and intense spiritual preparation becomes emancipated.

Man and woman should know that within themselves is the germ of the Infinite. If you cannot find your soul companion, do not marry. If you have found God, you do not need your soul companion. It is better to remain single than to enter into a wrong marriage. Transmute matrimonial love into love divine, and bring back your consciousness from the sex plane to the plane of paradise.

You may unite your feeling and reason by giving yourself to humanity. By having a bigger family, you have the right not to have a smaller, more limited one. For all those who are unmarried and wish to remain so, their greatest duty in life is service to humanity. If you do not marry physically, you must marry spiritually; otherwise you cannot be liberated. If you have no children of your own, adopt or teach the children of some one else, live an ideal life, and instill your soul qualities in them. What you instill in the souls of children is imperishable. Anything you do that perpetuates your life is, in a sense, your child. Thus fulfill your true purpose in life.

– May 1940


  1. Am in a spiritual marriage please help me out of this situation am not happy in my life am crying for help

    1. If you are unhappy in a spiritual marriage, you may or maybe not be happy all the time. It doesn’t matter what relationship you are in, we can be unhappy sometimes. However, if you are in a spiritual marriage, and you are unhappy all the time; then you are not in a spiritual marriage.
      Attending a spiritual Church or just a member of a Church, this doesn’t mean that you or your husband are spiritual and your marriage is spiritual.
      Marriage is a spiritual seed planted within the heart of the two individuals involved first. If you two are connected to God’s life line system, then there should bot be any problems.

  2. Hello Francis,

    From your message, it appears as though you may have misread the message. Go back and read slowly and carefully. If you are searching for help to make the marriage better, then it all starts with you; may I suggest you seek out a life coach or mentor or counselor who will assist you in discovering yourself. Once you have self discovery, then you will know how to posses the powers within you to navigate the “situation” you want to get out of………as it did not seem to be the marriage you wish to end. I wish you all the best.

  3. Hello friends..
    I am 43 old living in Jeddah saudia can u guide me how I find my soulmate patner ..
    for marriage..
    waiting for reply

  4. My soulmate and I are planning a spiritual marriage next year. At this time, This will not be a civil ceremony nor A document filed at the court office.

    Where can I find an officiant To guide us through our ceremony?

  5. What helped me find my Soul mate was to ask God and the Arch angels for signs I can visibly see.
    I asked God and the Arch angels to guide me with a Blue Jay bird to point to where I would find him. Months later, on a game app I play alot with, an icon of the Blue Jay was placed on its logo app. It was incredible because of all symbols that could have been used: it was the Blue Jay bird!
    Two years later, I met my Soul mate from that exact game app❤!! Miracles happen in simple ways. We just gave to open our eyes.

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